So, I had a conversation with my mom the other day. I will be honest, she doesn't like my "smut books" so have to say that up front. But, I asked her what she would do if I came home with two men.
She didn't like the idea. I asked her even if they were both as good to me as my present husband? (I said suppose I wasn't married and met these two men at the same time.) I pointed out twice the help around the house, twice the financial help, (she interrupted and said 'twice the sex' - I was thinking that, but I wasn't gonna say it, after all, she is still my mother :) )
She said she'd love me regardless, but she wouldn't be comfortable with it at all. She doesn't think men can do it and not get jealous. She asked me what I would do if hubby brought home another woman. I told her that wasn't the issue, I KNOW I couldn't handle that. And I am not asking for her permission to be in a triad, I was being hypothetical. Her answer still stands that she wants me to be happy but she wouldn't like it and she wouldn't be comfortable with it. But yes, they would still be welcome in her house.
I guess I am lucky that I can have all the triads I want in my writing, huh? And I can make those heroes and heroines have the most disapproving or accepting parents/family members I want.
Although, to be honest, I don't need a triad personally, I like my hubby and me alone :) But I still LOVE my triads in my writing.
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My husband would never allow another male to touch me, and to be spiteful I would not allow another woman into our bed.
I'll happily write away as you do!
And you know, I am happy, as are you. Otherwise I'd not be married :)
Sometimes fantasy is good because you know it would never happen so you can be as free as you wish.
LOL, Don't think mine would ever allow it either. And yeah, definitely not into another woman joining us. (I am way too selfish :) )
Fantasy is a good thing :)
LOL! I could picture my mom saying the same thing. I know hubby wouldn't allow it and I know that if another woman came in the house, she would have splinters in her butt because it would have hit the door so fast! lol
LOL, at least you'd let her retain her butt. Of course if hubby brought a woman home, HE'D be the one that would likely be losing parts (what, me, evil? never)
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